Life Is So Sad Sometimes,,,

[sexy_pumpkin]

Well its the most beautiful day here in Sydney, not a cloud in the beautiful clear blue sky, but its a sad day for a funeral, especially for a beautiful girl, who was only 18yrs old. She was a school friend of my eldest son, who didn't feel well, had a headache, went home & died from a bleed in the brain, OMG!!! could you imagine that, if any of my kids died like that, I'd never "survive" it. Her parents, family & friends are just all so devestated, I don't know how they'll get through today, how do you do that??? I only met her a few times, but I'll always remember her beautiful smiling face, its just seems so unfair, her life over, as it was just beginning, so remember her & her family in your prayers tonight, & may God Bless them in the months to come,,by Sexy P

Comments

[snowmore.livejournal.com]

There are just no words. I don't know how parents survive the loss of a child. I hate the phrase, it takes time, but, in truth, that's usually how it is. Sometimes, with the help of loved ones and professional assistance.
One of my dear friends lost her sister from a brain aneurism (which I suspect is the same as a brain bleed). She felt so guilty. She was brave enough to seek professional help. I personally think she suffered from PTSD for years afterwards, but time has healed. She is happily married and a successful hotel manager.

I hope your son is coping okay. This is such a shock and devastation to her school mates, as well.

[shadownyc.livejournal.com]

I'm so saddened by this incredibly devastating passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you, your family and the parents. I hope that your community will get past this and be able to come together to share your grief.

***Hugs you tight***

[stephmck.livejournal.com]

*hugs you tight*

[nathaliejolie.livejournal.com]

want to cry just reading this sad sad story.
sometimes angels are called back to heaven.

[testdog65.livejournal.com]

This is so sad. It always is when someone dies, but when it happens to a person so young, it's just doubly heartbreaking. My thoughts with you all.

~Ellen

[hansardgal.livejournal.com]

I'm so sorry to hear this. I hope Ryan is coping okay. Just know that I'm thinking of you, your family and the girl's family. *hugs* Call me if you need to talk.

[wildsweet-angel.livejournal.com]

That is so heartbreaking. I think that has to be every parent's nightmare, burying their child. My thoughts are with you, your son, and the poor girl's family. It's never easy dealing with a tragedy such as this. *hugs to you*

Loss

[firehead30.livejournal.com]

Sexy P, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your son's friend. What a tragedy for the family and community. I have thought of how I would cope if I lost a child and I don't even know where to begin. This story just makes my heart clench and makes me want to watch my three beautifulrottenwonderful sleep like I did when they were babies. Think they would notice if I snuck a kiss in while giving them their hugs???

Chin up Darlin,

Fire

Re: Loss

[sexy-pumpkin.livejournal.com]

Thanks for the kind words, I don't think Ive ever chatted to you before, so nice to hear from you & yes give them all a big fat kiss & lots of hugs to, I've stood looking at mine this week whilst they've been sleeping, God the love is overwhelming at times, look after your self, *waves* Sexy P

[bdeviled.livejournal.com]

It seems unfair because it is. So very unfair. My heart bleeds for that family. It has to be the worst thing a parent can go through. Any loss is heartbreaking, but the loss of a child is particularly cruel. It reminds us all to cherish the people we love every day and be grateful for each moment we have with them.

[sexy-pumpkin.livejournal.com]

Hi there, thanks for the post, it ended up raining here today, how appropiate, hope your well, had a crap week, so busy with the kids, wheres my Dad when I need him, how dare he die & leave us all to cope without him lol, God I miss him, hugs to you SP

[bdeviled.livejournal.com]

I wish my arms were long enough to give you a great big bear hug from half-way around the world. I know from experience, every loss, even if it isn't directly our own, brings back others to our minds and our hearts. I hope the pain eases soon and only happy memories remain.

[http://users.livejournal.com/malli_/]

When one of my friends, aged 20, passed away one year ago he suffered for a week, fell into a coma and died three weeks later. It's tragic when a person dies, especialy young - but remember, it can always be worse than "just dying after a headache". My thoughts will be with the family tonight.

[sexy-pumpkin.livejournal.com]

Thanks for your kind words & yes theres a thousand worse ways of dying, its just the age,,18, so young, if it happened to any of mine, I'd never survive it, I wouldn't want to,,thanks for friending me back, can never have enough friends lol,,hugs SP